1. I wanted to be 'in crowed', but I was never good enough,or pretty enough. What I learned through that whole experience is that it is better to be yourself than you are not. Your true friends are the ones who are always there for you, although they may not be 'in'. People are not your real friends if they say you can't do this or you can't do that. True friends will let you be you. So to save yourself a lot of heartbreak and tears---be true to yourself!
2. If a boy says that you are ugly, he is totally wrong! A boy has to know you to like you. And it is not about looking good---it is about what is inside. Everyone is UNIQUE!
3. No matter how mean people are to you, don't try to fight back---it only matters worse. Just try to be friends!
4. When your parents are yelling at you, don't yell back. You'll just get in more trouble. Talk in a nice low voice or just call your bf and complain about it to him it is over.
5. Don't worry about looking fat or whether or not your favorite music is 'in'. Don't ever worry about that other people think. I know it's hard, but you have to try.